Recently I heard something about judgment that I thought was really interesting. When you tell someone something about themselves that they don't want to hear the say, "Don't judge me!" However if you turn right around and say, "Hey! You look cute today," they'll say, "thank you"...but saying that they look cute is a judgment of their appearance.
Just like in court there are judgments that people will welcome (i.e: "not guilty) and those people don't want to hear, (i.e: guilty).
So what does it really mean when you say, "Don't judge me"? It means, "don't tell me something about me that I don't want to hear!"
Interesting, huh? :)
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